In my August
30, 2013 post, “Seduction is not
Rape,” I reviewed a case in which a 49-year-old male teacher who
seduced his 14-year-old student was convicted of rape.
“Now,
make no mistake about it; what he did was clearly wrong; a crime; a disgusting,
unethical despicable act deserving substantial punishment,” I wrote, “but it was not rape. Those
who call it rape are disingenuously engaged in redefining a word in the English
language which means something entirely different than what happened to that
girl. In doing so, they commit a disservice to women and girls who have
actually been raped. This is a case of seduction and seduction is not rape. Rape
requires the necessary element of force or coercion. It is the crime of forcing
another person against their will to submit to sex acts.”
In that case
the “victim” consented to the sexual acts. The teacher seduced her. There was
no force involved. But the law arbitrarily specified that a minor does not have
the mental capacity to consent to sex. So the force necessary to make the act a
crime was implied from the arbitrary designation of a lack of consent – a legal
fiction. The law provided that she couldn’t consent under any circumstances. If
she couldn’t consent then she didn’t consent, and if she didn’t consent then it
follows that she had to have been forced.
He didn’t
rape that girl. Rape is the crime of forcing another person to submit to sexual
acts. He seduced her. Calling seduction rape is like calling negligent homicide
murder. Murder requires, among other things, the element of intent to kill, an
element that is totally lacking in the crime of negligent homicide. To arbitrarily
infer the element of intent to kill from negligence serves only to pervert the
definition of murder.
The
definition of rape is perverted by inferring the necessary element of force
from the fact that the victim is a minor. The crime of seduction of a minor is
far less serious than the crime of rape, but by calling seduction rape the law employs
a fiction for the purpose of making the two crimes seem to be of equal import.
Today, a New
Jersey lawmaker wants to take the legal fiction a step further down the road to
absurdity by criminalizing what he calls the act of “rape by fraud.”
Sex by fraud is already defined as a
crime in at least five states, including California and Tennessee.
That’s
right. If a grown man lies to a grown woman in order to talk her into having
sex, he’s a rapist according to New Jersey Assemblyman Troy Singleton,
D-Burlington. In short, he thinks that the fraud amounts to the force necessary
for the commission of the crime of rape.
“I truly
believe that we have to look at the issue of rape as more than sexual contact
without consent,” Singleton
explains. “Fraud invalidates any semblance of
consent, just as forcible sexual contact does. This legislation is designed to
provide our state's judiciary with another tool to assess situations where this
occurs and potentially provide a legal remedy to those circumstances.”
It happens
all the time. A guy tells a woman he loves her. He lies. He really doesn’t love
her; he just wants to get in her pants and it works. If lawmaker Singleton has
his way with the legislature, the guy will be convicted as a rapist.
That is
absurd. Why? ... Because seduction is not rape.